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Mark “Chip” Herm is a pro poker player whom I met studying orgasm. This episode was recorded on New Years Day 2016 where we talk about goal creation, skrillaging, and Chirp’s new fatherhood.

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Ken Blackman: Penetrating Powerful Women and Stuff

Powered by RedCircleKen Blackman is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples. I met him when he was the Head Instructor and “Master Stroker” at OneTaste and I was starting my journey into trippy stuff. His recent work on relationships soon...

Lt. Col. Dave Grossman: On Combat, On Killing

Powered by RedCircleLt. Col. Dave Grossman is a retired Army Ranger and the author of On Killing, On Combat, and a number of other books on the psychology of violence. His first book greatly influenced Ruwan when he was an officer select in the US Marine Corps. We...

John Gray: Beyond Mars and Venus, Hormones, Polarity

Powered by RedCircleOn the threshold of my recent breakup, a friend lent me the book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. At first, I resisted at it. I knew the book. I remember my mom watching the book's author, John Gray, on Oprah when I was 7 years old. I...

Dating Your Partner’s Archetypes

Powered by RedCircleWhen you date someone, you're also dating their archetypes. Carl Jung coined the term "Quaternio" for the 6 archetypal relationships that exist when two people get together.  Here I break down how you relate to the unconscious parts of your...

Brittnee Bond: Cape Town Adventures

Powered by RedCircleBrittnee and I talk about man-woman stuff outside of South Africa's parliament. Check out other episodes

When Kali Trampled Shiva: A Parable for Men About Difficult Women

Powered by RedCircleRecording of my most shared article from last year. I referenced back to it recently after listening to a bit by Jordan Peterson on how "there's nothing men can do when a woman is irrationally upset." I like JP, but that's simply not true. Handling...

On Topping, Bottoming, Being Felt

Powered by RedCircleWe discussed Topping vs. Bottoming and answered some questions on being seen/heard/felt. Check out other episodes

Your Personal Development is a Genre of Entertainment

Powered by RedCircleYour Hero's Journey is the best story there is. In this episode I speak on how to invest your attention to get the most momentum in the movie that is your life. Check out other episodes