How Emotions Affect Arousal Response: Between Couples & For Individuals

Our ability to feel physical pleasure is affected by how we process emotions. When I was a Libido and Relationship Counselor I found one key cause in BOTH individual psychogenic sexual dysfunction (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia) AND when couples can’t enjoy sex with each other.

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Puer Aeternus: Evolving Beyond The Infinite Child

by Ruwando | September 16, 2019 | Episodes | 0 Comments

Powered by RedCircleI discussed the recent Puer Aeternus video on YouTube. It seemed to have touched a lot of guys who still see themselves as 'boys' in their mind. Check out other episodes

Brittnee Bond: Cape Town Adventures

by Ruwando | September 18, 2019 | Episodes | 0 Comments

Powered by RedCircleBrittnee and I talk about man-woman stuff outside of South Africa's parliament. Check out other episodes

The Devils Inside Us: How Sexual Archetypes Help Individuation

by Ruwando | January 30, 2020 | Episodes | 0 Comments

Powered by RedCircleThis is one of my denser articles, so I thought it would be good in audio format. We dig into the rape fantasy and how it reveals opportunities for healing in relationships and in the Self. Check out other episodes

Anish Patel: Feminine Cleanse

by admin | September 3, 2020 | Episodes | 0 Comments

Powered by RedCircleAnish Patel is a men's coach who has worked with Dr. Robert Glover and others. He shares with me an interesting practice called the Feminine Cleanse for men to let go of limiting behavior in relating to women and their masculinity.Check out other...

Going Out On Your Shield: Embracing Failure

by Ruwando | November 5, 2020 | Episodes | 0 Comments

Powered by RedCircle"Come back with your shield - or on it" ~ Spartan mothers to their sons before battle (according to Plutarch) Queen Gorgo says those words to Leonidas in the movie 300. Deontay Wilder referenced it in his willingness to be KO'ed cold rather than a...

Q&A Feat. Tim Jack

by Ruwando | November 26, 2018 | Episodes | 0 Comments

Powered by RedCircleTim Jack has questions for Ruwando about dating, developing confidence, and self-help being a genre of entertainment. We also cover the problems with conventional education and other tangents. Check out other episodes

Jordan Luke Collier: Ars Amorata

by Ruwando | September 11, 2019 | Episodes | 0 Comments

Powered by RedCircleJordan is the head instructor of Ars Amorata and men’s coach. We go deep into attachment theory for men in dating, the spirituality of beauty, and some of the inevitable “magical” experiences when a man reaches advanced levels with women. Check out...

Lover Archetype

by Ruwando | December 29, 2020 | Episodes | 0 Comments

Powered by RedCircle A lot of men lose their masculinity when they catch feelings for the feminine. (But it doesn't have to be that way.) As voted on, and inspired by recent posts in the group, next live discussion is on maintaining polarity in relationship. We'll...