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Article from early 2018. This one got me kicked off The Good Men Project for being “too volatile.”

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The Vulnerability Trap: How to Recognize Real Openness

Powered by RedCircleMost people misunderstand vulnerability. It is not a set of specific actions or saying a particular thing. Often people aren't actually being vulnerable when they think they are.  If you're watching this, I assume you already understand the...

Breaking Social Construction of Reality

Powered by RedCircleMost of our perceptions of reality come from our social conditioning. Your recurrent states like confidence, connection, inner peace are often a result of your social (collective) programming. This discussion will cover how to *Break the Game* of...

How to Deal with Women’s Anger

Powered by RedCircle If a woman you're intimate with is throwing anger at you, it's not necessarily a bad thing. Actually, it might be a good sign. And an opportunity to deepen the relationship. However, many analytical guys mess it up.... In this episode I share the...

Sexual Shadow: Integrating Darkside, Overcoming Madonna-Whore Complex

Powered by RedCircleThe Sexual Shadow is the set of pre-conscious impulses that stimulate the libido but counter your morality. Dissociation is common in men and seen in the 'Madonna-Whore Complex'— the categorization of women as either pure sources of love, or as...

Colossus vs. Wolverine: 2 Strategies on Experiencing Emotions

Powered by RedCircleArticle from 2018. Common ideological battle in men's development. Check out other episodes

Alchemy of the Psyche: Anima & Animus in Intimacy and Creative Expression

Powered by RedCircleWe all have a masculine and feminine aspect to our psyche. The ability to integrate theses archetypes directs our intimate relationships and creative expression. Check out other episodes

When Kali Trampled Shiva: A Parable for Men About Difficult Women

Powered by RedCircleRecording of my most shared article from last year. I referenced back to it recently after listening to a bit by Jordan Peterson on how "there's nothing men can do when a woman is irrationally upset." I like JP, but that's simply not true. Handling...

Devotion, Bali, Night Kings feat. Summer Engman

Powered by RedCircleSummer is a photographer and all around creative cat. We used to host a radio show about dating in Brooklyn. Now we meet in various parts of the world and do radio-like things. In this episode Summer analyzes my relationship tendencies. We also...