fbpx

Powered by RedCircle

Internalized shame is a killer of self-esteem, libido, and a person’s spirit. More than ever before, collective morality shames authentic masculinity. The ‘Dark Masculine’ is the archetype of removing shame and returning to true form.

In this episode I speak on 3 levels:

1. Redefining beliefs around individual vs. collective “morality”
2. The 2 types of male-specific shame, and biological roots
3. How to unearth the ‘Dark Masculine’ archetype and heal shame

This was inspired by the posts in theĀ Masculine Underground FB Group. If you find this interesting, I’d appreciate if you’d rate this your favorite podcast app.

Mentioned resources:
contemplativeman.com
arousalcontrolsecrets.com
Existential Kink podcast w/ Carolyn Elliott
Biology of Desire podcast with Marc Lewis, PhD

Check out other episodes

Bottoming: When Feminine-style Influence Masculine Power

Powered by RedCircleI made a bad move with some cops recently... I was being too "masculine". There's a time and place to be Top Dog. There's many times where guys can take a practical tip from the ladies. Check out other episodes

Paying for Women, Text Game, Sexual Performance Mindset, Sexual Shame

Powered by RedCircle1:32 Paying for women on dates, providing, screening gold-diggers, what to look for8:32 Text game, communication tempo, how to know what to text, subcommunication, leading vulnerability17:02 Sexual Performance Psychology23:34 Overcoming Shame Check...

Independent Frames

Powered by RedCircle Why don't men like being told what to do? Some may call that "fragile masculinity" or some insecure need for dominance. But actually there are real consequences for the man and his relationships if he too frequently takes orders. I share an...

Neal Goldsmith: Psychedelic Healing

Powered by RedCircleNeal Goldsmith is a psychotherapist and the author of Psychedelic Healing. We speak on microdosing, sexuality, and other fun things. This is a throwback episode from Questions For People. Check out other episodes

Jordan Luke Collier: Subjective vs. Objective Beauty

Powered by RedCircleJordan is the head instructor of Ars Amorata. We philosophize on beauty as a heuristic for navigating life.Check out other episodes

Dominance Hierarchies

Powered by RedCircleOur Emotional-Territorial brain evolved to1) connect as social groups,2) determine place in the 'dominance hierarchy'. Much of our self-esteem, locus of control, and ability to socialize comes down to the imprinting of the primitive nervous system....

Changing Your Filter on Reality

Powered by RedCircle"Reality is a controlled hallucination" (Anil Seth) This episode explores the different layers of reality perception. The goals and vulnerabilities of the 'Reason Circuit', and how perception can be bent to intentionally influence reality. We pick...

Om Rupani: When “Social Justice” Increases Permission to Hate

Powered by RedCircleOm Rupani is a BDSM instructor and teacher of erotic arts. He comes on to speak about the current conversation around masculinity. Check out other episodes