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Why don’t men like being told what to do? Some may call that “fragile masculinity” or some insecure need for dominance. But actually there are real consequences for the man and his relationships if he too frequently takes orders. I share an example of when a buddy and I refused to listen to a good suggestion and why that mattered.

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Puer Aeternus: Evolving Beyond The Infinite Child

Powered by RedCircleI discussed the recent Puer Aeternus video on YouTube. It seemed to have touched a lot of guys who still see themselves as 'boys' in their mind. Check out other episodes

Lt. Col. Dave Grossman: On Combat, On Killing

Powered by RedCircleLt. Col. Dave Grossman is a retired Army Ranger and the author of On Killing, On Combat, and a number of other books on the psychology of violence. His first book greatly influenced Ruwan when he was an officer select in the US Marine Corps. We...

Prometheus Rising: 4 Neural Circuits of Consciousness

Powered by RedCircle Drawing from Robert Anton Wilson's Prometheus Rising, we dig into Timothy Leary's Eight Circuit Model of Consciousness. The first four circuits (bio-survival, emotional-territorial, semantic, and socio-sexual) are present in all humans. Most human...

Nalaya Chakana: Daring to Love, Conscious Celibacy

Powered by RedCircleNalaya Chakana is an intimacy coach who helps people experience real love and connection. She and I met in Peru some years ago. I had to ask her about conscious celibacy because... well you'll see. Her Dare to Love course starts in September 2020....

Nicole Brenny: Sex on Meditation

Powered by RedCircleNicole Brenny is an astrologer and spiritual counselor. She speaks about how meditation affects sex and relating. This is a throwback episode from my old radio show, The 60 Minute Orgasm. Check out other episodes

Status Signal and Terror Sweat feat. Joseph Teskey

Powered by RedCirclePsychotherapist Joseph Teskey and I speak about how perceived status affects physical expression. We speak about the reality of status and some of goings on with masculinity in culture. I'm doing a workshop for my Mastermind next weekend. Visit...

Bez Stone: Styles of Attachment

Powered by RedCircleBez is sexuality educator who had a brilliant TED talk on female orgasm. She also recently shared a series of posts about intimacy regarding moving in with her boyfriend. I know this because I just moved in with my girlfriend and she keeps sending...

Sarah Steel (Let’s Talk About Sects): Cult Psychology

Powered by RedCircle Sarah Steel is the host of Let's Talk About Sects, a podcast about cults. I was on her show just recently in episode on OneTaste (premiers today). We talk about group social dynamics, the psychology of cult leaders and members, ethics, and...