3 Non-Sexual Things That Affect a Man's Sex Life (SW)

3 Non-Sexual Things That Affect a Man's Sex Life (SW)

Men come to work with me when they want to have a better sex life. Sometimes they have some sort of sexual problem they want fixed. Sometimes they just want to experience sexual mastery. Often new clients are surprised that we end up not talking about sex much at all.

Sex is a microcosm for how we interact with the world. A guy can tell me about his sex life and I can infer everything I need to know about him as a whole. All of a person’s insecurities, mental conditioning, and deepest desires show up in the bedroom. I’m passionate about coaching people to have better sex lives because that in turn makes the entire emotional side of their lives better.

As above so below. The opposite is also true. There are certain things in your non-sexual life that have a huge impact on what you experience in bed. Here are 3...

Read more...

5 Tips For Maintaining a Sex Buddy Relationship

5 Tips For Maintaining a Sex Buddy Relationship

Dr. Lisa Wade, a sociologist who studies the sexual habits of college students, has noted that while “hook up-based relationships” are becoming the norm, many people run into pitfalls in them because of the lack of guidelines. Here’s how to maintain a sex buddy relationship, without having it fizzle out prematurely, nor have it turn into an undesired commitment.

How to Make Him Surrender In Bed (SW)

How to Make Him Surrender In Bed (SW)

Surrender means to let go of control, drop the ego, and give yourself to the moment. Most men don’t want to ever let go of control out of fear, and therefore miss out on the upper range of the sexual sensation spectrum. Getting your man to give up control takes some work, but it’s possible with anyone. Here’s how to make him surrender.

6 Tips For Anal Play (SW)

6 Tips For Anal Play (SW)

Anal sex is amongst the most vulnerable acts partners can do in the bedroom. It’s more than a kink or alternate form of intercourse. The act of entering someone/taking someone in through the rear gateway is an excellent metaphor for getting inside/letting someone in the deep vulnerable parts of the psyche. For more on the emotional significance on the rear, read on the subject of buttholes.

There is plenty of obvious advice on anal sex such as “use lots of lube,” “go slow,” and “RELAX.” But there’s a whole lot more to it than that. Here are six tips more advanced tips for great anal sex.

8 Tips to Improve Sexual Technique

8 Tips to Improve Sexual Technique

The best sexual technique naturally arises in the moment when you’re orgasmically on.

The key to improve your sexual technique is not memorizing moves, but from doing the work to be in orgasm–a state of heightened sensation. Once in that state, the best sex moves will come to you intuitively.

Here are eight ways to change your sex game so that every technique you do is a masterful play.

How To Take Down a Player After You've Slept With Him

How To Take Down a Player After You've Slept With Him

The idea that you need to know how to take down a player after you slept with him comes from the myth of conventional dating: Men and Women are in competition; men just want sex to further their genes, women just want to lock down a partner for security; therefore one must strategize and compete in the dating marketplace.

Change the Game and the Player will follow. Here are 3 ways you can play with him, so you can’t get played.